Saturday, 31 May 2014

On Turning 31

Today I turned 31.
31 on the 31st May; that feels meaningful.
Turning 31 feels different to turning 30, better; 30 hangs in the air like a partially deflated balloon from a party that you should have already left. 31 on the other hand has a sense of purpose to it.  I am now IN my 30's as opposed to clinging hopelessly to my late 20s. The party is most definitely over and it's time to clean up, it's time to get serious.  Oh, that sounds very dull, I don't mean it to.  It's not going to be dull, it's going to be awesome, but it is going to be more purposeful.
I am going to seriously start to enjoy myself, I am going to seriously start to be grateful for all the wonderful things I have, I am going to seriously be positive, I am going to seriously start making meaning in my life and I am going to seriously start crafting a joyful life.
I love that my birthday falls about halfway through the year, it gives me a chance to reflect on the first half of the year and re-focus on my goals, and create new ones. It occurred to me that 10 years ago I was celebrating my 21st birthday, a great milestone year, I had a look through my photos to see what I was up to this time 10 years ago.  I was in my second year of uni at Oxford Brookes studying Fine Art, my house mates and I had a house party with some old school friends and new uni friends. It was an awesome party involving plenty of alcohol, an epic balloon fight, birthday cake and plenty of drunken antics.  Oh now times have changed in 10 years, not just where I am in life but also who my friends are and what I feel is important.  This year all I wanted to do for my birthday was go for a walk in the woods, eat some lunch in a pub, then chill out at home for the afternoon!  No partying here!  But it was all good, it was what I wanted to do and it felt special.  I felt special.  Even hanging the washing on the washing line this morning felt special and different because it was my birthday and it made me realise how important your outlook is on the way you feel.  I have been thinking a lot recently about positivity and more specifically the power of positive thinking, how consciously thinking positively can change how you feel and maybe even what happens to you.  I fully intend on doing some positive thinking in the coming weeks (made easier by the warmer weather and lighter evenings), lets see where that leads!
When we went for a walk in the woods today and I received a message, a little piece of plastic that my husband picked up from the bushes with the words "yes you can" printed on it.  I took this as an answer to a few questions I have had recently.
I feel really good about turning 31 and I think this is going to be a really amazing year. Watch this space!


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6 comments:

  1. Happiest of birthday wishes! It sounds like a wonderful day and a wonderful intention for the coming year. Xx

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    1. Thankyou! It was a good, relaxing day, just what I wanted.

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  2. Happy birthday Helen! I hope it will be a happy year for you.

    I'm sharing your thoughts on positive thinking. What I've discovered recently is that when my heart and my head are not in the right place, to go ahead and do the thing - whatever it is - anyway. The act of doing is often all it takes to encourage the head and the heart into a better place.

    Lovely photos - Happy Birthday!

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    1. Thanks Lynn, I definitely struggle to do things if neither my head and heart are not in the right place, I probably wouldn't actually. I am not sure if I should start saying YES to things more now I am 31, or whether now that I am 31 I should be able to say NO more! One thing I know for sure is that if I have a problem then talking about it somehow helps my brain work out the answer.

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  3. its special because its your crown birthday

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    1. Ooh I have never heard that before. Must google.

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